Cover of Grandma and Grandpa (Out-and-About)

In 2007, over six million children under 18 lived with their grandparents; almost 2.8 million grandparents were raising their grandchildren by themselves. The children may need care because of death, military deployment, mental illness, incarceration, drugs, alcohol, or other causes.

Whatever the reason, the grandparents have stepped up to take care of dependent children who need protection and care. It is often a financial burden and a physical and emotional challenge. The children can be angry with their parents and lash out at the only targets at hand – Grandma and Grandpa.

Children who have been in abusive situations may have a variety of mental health issues from depression to post traumatic disorder. Even very young children can be affected and should be under the care of a mental health professional. Children can also have medical conditions like failure to thrive, malnutrition, and poor dental care.

It is important for all involved to have a clear understanding of the child’s legal standing. A grandparent cannot legally enroll a child in school or seek medical attention unless they have legal standing. An experienced attorney is a good investment. Many communities have legal aid or non-profit organizations to help grandparents who cannot afford private attorneys.

If children have been removed from their parents’ care by the State, they can often be placed with grandparents or other relatives who qualify as foster families. The children are covered by insurance and the families can be paid as foster families. They do, however, have to agree to abide by all the rules including frequent social worker visits and following a treatment plan for each child.