Grandparents as Mom and Dad

In 2007, over six million children under 18 lived with their grandparents; almost 2.8 million grandparents were raising their grandchildren by themselves. The children may need care because of death, military deployment, mental illness, incarceration, drugs, alcohol, or other causes.

Whatever the reason, the grandparents have stepped up to take care of dependent children who need protection and care. It is often a financial burden and a physical and emotional challenge. The children can be angry with their parents and lash out at the only targets at hand – Grandma and Grandpa.

Children who have been in abusive situations may have a variety of mental health issues from depression to post traumatic disorder. Even very young children can be affected and should be under the care of a mental health professional. Children can also have medical conditions like failure to thrive, malnutrition, and poor dental care.

It is important for all involved to have a clear understanding of the child’s legal standing. A grandparent cannot legally enroll a child in school or seek medical attention unless they have legal standing. An experienced attorney is a good investment. Many communities have legal aid or non-profit organizations to help grandparents who cannot afford private attorneys.

If children have been removed from their parents’ care by the State, they can often be placed with grandparents or other relatives who qualify as foster families. The children are covered by insurance and the families can be paid as foster families. They do, however, have to agree to abide by all the rules including frequent social worker visits and following a treatment plan for each child.

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Gaining a new Perspective: Baby Proofing

Hi!! Im almost Crawling

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The world is defined to familiar miles, the distances conquered daily. Your life is a series of little journeys — with paths carved from your home to your cubicle and back again. It’s an all too easy thing to move through the morning, and all steps seem free of danger. There are no worries to discover within your routine. It’s instead perfectly easy and perfectly safe.

That sense of safety disappears, however, when your child begins to crawl — and suddenly finds a wealth of worries scattered along your carpet.

The perspective you offer each day is one of maturity… and height. Your eyes remain focused on the the tall inches, with no concern for the ground below. Children, however, lack that ability. They are instead defined to their knees, must scurry about the floor to achieve their goals; and often they can find cords to pull, carpets to upend and little fragments of trash you’ve dragged inside. Nails, screws, glass, paper and more can all be seen — and then even swallowed.

It’s necessary therefore that parents kneel, allowing themselves to crawl as their children do. This will ensure that the view is unobscured and any potential dangers can be found. All outlets can be covered; all cables can be removed; and every inch of carpeting can be scoured for what vacuums may leave behind. Sliding across the ground will offer security.

Children lack the ability to censor impulses. They will scramble toward any temptation, unaware of the dangers. It’s vital therefore that all parents — including you — be aware of the possible threats and remove them.

 

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Living Room Safety: Baby Proofing

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A living room is meant to inspire relaxation, to offer solace from a too hectic world. The arrival of a child, however, has turned it instead into a source of dread — with every corner examined and every furnishing deemed dangerous. You’re terrified to allow your toddler to cross the threshold.

You don’t have to be.

Securing your living room is a simple thing, requiring only basic procedures:

Outlet Protection

A gape in the wall, an easy opening: outlets tempt children daily, with little fingers forever trying to press inside. This is worrisome, however, and can result in injury. It’s recommended therefore that parents take preemptive measures against what’s certain to occur — with safety caps. These ingenious devices can be placed into any standard outlet, keeping it closed when not it use. They can’t be removed with a toddler’s strength and ensure that holes can’t be touched.

Cord Removal

It’s the slow sway of a cord. Curtains are moving in the breeze, too strange to resist. Children will be enthralled by motion, will wish to grab easy to reach cables. And this can result in disaster: collisions, strangulation or even death. It’s important therefore that parents remove all low hanging cords.

Slip Resistance

Little feet pad quickly across the floor without grace or hesitancy. Children run at too daring speeds, and this often proves to be too much for carpeting. Throw-rugs will slip beneath the assault of toddlers, causing spills and bruises. Slip-mats are therefore necessary. These are placed beneath fabric and will ensure that they remain in place.

These methods will allow you to transform your living room into a happy environment.

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Chemical Storage: Safety Tips

It’s the slow creak of a door, the hesitant twist of a knob. The sound winds its way through the kitchen, interrupting your dinner preparations. You frown, glancing down to find the source, wondering what could make hinges wince. The answer startles you — your child is settled on the floor, opening cabinets and reaching toward the cleaning supplies. Chemicals are suddenly sought, their properties understood as new.

You’re already running, scooping your toddler up before he can grasp the first bottle and hurrying him away.

Children are defined by their curiosity. They distinguish the world through touch, learning all facets with their paint-stained fingers. It’s essential therefore that parents anticipate this and respond by storing chemicals responsibly.

The common precaution with cleaning supplies is to simply tuck them beneath the sink. A closed door is assumed to be enough of a deterrent. It isn’t, however. Instead it will serve only as a temptation, with children forever toddling toward it (and eventually even undoing the lock that’s wrapped around the knob). This is not safe.

It’s necessary instead to place chemicals on high shelves. All should be stored in the top cupboards, where children cannot reach them. This is the only preventive measure that is certain to work, with height acting as a barrier that can’t be overcome (be certain that youths can’t scramble onto counters. Avoid any step-ladders or easily scaled chairs in the kitchen). A safety lock is also recommended to complete the precaution.

Chemicals are understood as dangerous — to you. Children, however, will need time to recognize this. All supplies must therefore be stored properly until the lesson is learned.

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